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Divorce Lawyer in Hackensack, NJ

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Experienced Family Law Guidance, Steps From the Bergen County Courthouse

When your marriage is ending, the right divorce lawyer in Hackensack does far more than file paperwork. At Cowen & Jacobs, a women-owned family law firm, we guide clients through divorce, child custody, support, and property division for families across Hackensack and Bergen County. Our office sits at Court Plaza South on Main Street, a short walk from the Bergen County Justice Center at 10 Main Street, where your case will be decided.

For more than 35 years, partners Barbara Cowen and Sara Jacobs have handled everything from amicable settlements to high-conflict litigation in the Bergen County Family Division. That time in front of the local bench shapes how we approach custody disputes, alimony, and the division of homes, businesses, and retirement accounts, so you always understand your options and what to expect at each stage.

Ready to know exactly where you stand? Schedule your free, confidential consultation today.

How We Guide You Through Each Stage in Bergen County

Going through a divorce means navigating unfamiliar legal territory. Knowing what to expect can reduce anxiety and help you make informed decisions at each stage, especially in a busy court system like Bergen County, where scheduling and case timelines can vary.

  1. Filing the Complaint
    We prepare and file your complaint with the Superior Court Family Division and make sure your spouse is properly served within the 60-day window, so your case starts on solid footing.
  2. Case Management Conference
    We appear with you at the Bergen County Justice Center on Main Street, where visitor parking is at the 55 Court Street garage, to set the issues, deadlines, and timeline so you are not navigating the courthouse alone.

  1. Discovery
    We gather and exchange the full financial picture, including bank statements, tax returns, property valuations, and business records, and prepare your Case Information Statement so nothing that affects support or asset division gets missed.
  1. Settlement Negotiations
    We negotiate directly with opposing counsel to resolve as much as possible without a trial, which is where most Bergen County cases conclude when they are handled well.
  1. Early Settlement Panel
    If issues remain, we present your position to the Bergen County Early Settlement Panel and use their recommendations, grounded in local court expectations, to move toward resolution.
  1. Economic Mediation
    When the court orders mediation, we prepare you for it and make full use of the first two no-cost hours Bergen County provides, working with mediators who know Hackensack-area family matters.
  1. Trial
    If your case cannot settle, we try it before your Family Division judge, presenting testimony and evidence to protect your custody, support, and property interests.

You can reach a settlement and step off this path at any point. Our job is to get you the best outcome as efficiently as possible, whether that happens at the negotiating table or in the courtroom.

Contested or Uncontested: Which Path Is Yours?

What your divorce costs and how long it takes comes down to one thing: whether you and your spouse agree.

  • Uncontested means you agree on parenting time, support, alimony, and property. The court reviews your agreement and enters judgment, often within six to eight months in Bergen County.
  • Contested means at least one issue is unresolved. You exchange discovery, work through the Early Settlement Panel and mediation, and see a judge only if those fail. Courts aim to finish within twelve months, though custody disputes, business valuations, and a backed-up Family Division calendar push that out.

Most cases are filed on irreconcilable differences: the marriage has broken down for six months, with no proof of wrongdoing needed. Few cases start as purely contested or uncontested, and our job is narrowing the disputes until only what matters is left.

Trusted by Families Across Bergen County

Families from Hackensack, Teaneck, Englewood, Paramus, Maywood, and surrounding Bergen County communities rely on our firm for guidance during life’s most difficult transitions.

How We Guide You Through Every Aspect of Divorce

Every divorce is different. Whether you need help with custody, finances, or understanding what comes next, we provide experienced guidance tailored to your situation.

Child Custody and Parenting Time

New Jersey courts prioritize your child’s best interests when determining custody arrangements, and Bergen County judges place strong emphasis on maintaining stability, especially when one parent stays in Hackensack while the other relocates to Englewood or another nearby town and the parenting-time schedule has to work around school and the commute between them.

Child Support

New Jersey calculates child support based on both parents’ income, number of children, and parenting time arrangements. We ensure calculations are accurate and fair. When circumstances change, including job loss, salary increases, or evolving needs, we handle modifications to adjust support orders.

Alimony and Spousal Support

Courts examine multiple factors: length of marriage, each spouse’s income and earning capacity, standard of living, and contributions to the household. We analyze whether alimony applies in your case, determine appropriate amounts and duration, and negotiate terms that reflect your contributions and future needs.

Property Division and Asset Protection

New Jersey divides marital property fairly, not necessarily equally. This includes your home, retirement accounts, investments, and debts. In Bergen County, where the marital home is often a couple’s largest asset, real estate values frequently drive equitable distribution, especially in higher-value Route 4 markets such as Teaneck.

For complex financial situations, we handle:

  • Business valuations and ownership interests
  • Stock options and deferred compensation
  • Real estate portfolios and investment properties
  • Retirement benefits and pension plans (QDROs)
  • Tax implications of division strategies

We bring in forensic accountants so nothing is missed. If you signed a prenuptial agreement, we determine whether it holds up and either enforce or challenge it.

What Does a Divorce in Hackensack Actually Cost?

New Jersey charges $300 to file a divorce complaint, plus $25 if you have children. Legal fees are the variable, billed hourly against a retainer that scales with the fight, not the paperwork. What drives it up:

  • Contested custody, which adds motions, evaluations, and court dates
  • Business valuations, stock options, or income that is hard to pin down
  • Expert witnesses like forensic accountants
  • A spouse who withholds discovery, forcing motion practice
  • Going to trial instead of settling at the Early Settlement Panel

An uncontested divorce costs a fraction of a contested one, which is why we use settlement tools first. Bergen County provides the first two hours of economic mediation free. We quote a specific retainer at your free consultation, so you know the number before you commit.

Why Families Trust Cowen & Jacobs

Plenty of firms handle divorce. Fewer have spent decades inside the courtrooms, panels, and committees that decide Bergen County cases.

  • Roots inside the Bergen County court system. Barbara E. Cowen clerked for the Hon. Arthur Minuskin in the Bergen County Superior Court and serves on the Bergen County Ethics Committee, giving her rare insight into how the local bench handles family cases.
  • A former co-chair of the Bergen County ADR Committee. Sara Jacobs arbitrated at the Superior Court here for fourteen years, experience that helps settle your divorce through mediation or the Early Settlement Panel instead of a trial.
  • The right experts for complex assets. We bring in forensic accountants, tax experts, and child psychologists when a business, retirement accounts, or real estate are in play.
  • Direct access to your attorney. You work with Barbara or Sara personally, reachable by phone, email, and text.

 

No firm can guarantee an outcome. We can promise focused, locally informed advocacy. 

Questions We Hear From Families Facing Divorce

Even if you live in Garfield or elsewhere in southern Bergen County, your divorce is heard at the Family Division of the Bergen County Justice Center at 10 Main Street in Hackensack. We file and appear there regularly, so we know the staff, the procedures, and the local scheduling realities.

At least one spouse must have lived in New Jersey for a full year before filing on most grounds, including irreconcilable differences. If you recently settled in Hackensack or Fort Lee after a move, we can confirm whether you meet the one-year requirement.

Often, yes. If you meet New Jersey’s residency requirement, you can file in Bergen County even when your spouse lives elsewhere, though serving them and resolving support or property may take extra steps. We will map out what your situation requires.

During court hours, you can request a temporary restraining order at the Family Division inside the Bergen County Justice Center. After hours and on weekends, your local police department can reach an on-call judge. We represent you at the final hearing that follows.

Many Bergen County family matters now run as virtual hearings, while certain conferences and trials still happen in person downtown. We will tell you exactly which of your appearances require a trip to the courthouse.

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Barbara E. Cowen
Barbara E. Cowen

Family law attorney practicing in New Jersey since 1981, handling divorce, custody, support, domestic violence, and mediation; J.D. cum laude from Pace, B.A. summa cum laude from the University of Cincinnati, former New Jersey Superior Court law clerk, and active member of state and national bar associations.

 
 
Sara
Sara Jacobs

Employment and personal injury attorney and longtime arbitrator in New Jersey, Sara draws on 14 years as a Superior Court arbitrator and extensive ADR experience to resolve workplace disputes and injury claims efficiently; she holds an LL.M. from NYU School of Law, serves as an adjunct professor, and is active in multiple bar and women’s law associations.

 

Don’t Face Divorce Alone & Protect What Matters Most

The hardest part of divorce is often the uncertainty: what happens to your home, your children, your savings, and the future you planned for. A clear strategy turns those unknowns into a plan you can actually see and steps you can actually take. Sit down with Barbara or Sara for a free, confidential consultation and leave knowing exactly where you stand and what to do next.

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